Continue to trust completely in God and ask him to help you learn how to receive graciously, for you have to receive first before you can give to yourself and others. Release any fear or doubt to God so that your energies become clear and you become your most powerful to attract your solution, yes that which is the best for you. Try to always keep in mind that God is in charge over mankind, it will help you keep your fears at bay. This you already know so this is just a trigger to your remembrance.
I believe one of the ways that God sends his guidance/answers/reinforcements to us is through our intuition/gut feelings. Being in the spiritually healthy state of “letting go and letting God and trusting that he is in charge” helps us to receive these guidance/answers/reinforcements without fear or doubt. I also believe that sometimes he sends guidance/reinforcements/answers through others in any of the various forms of communication. Being in the spiritually healthy state of “love” helps us to receive these guidance/answers/reinforcements from others without judgment. We just have to set aside time daily to work on being in a healthy state to receive graciously from any conduit…
Just stop and love only yourself right now to refuel your energy to give to yourself first and then to others. Don’t forget to pat yourself on the back for doing a good job. Remember, things may not happen overnight for it is a process. But the process gets shorter as your energies get cleared and hence stronger. Also, allow any person close to you to do the same, if they need to, for they too have to refuel to satisfy their needs first so that they can give to you what you want from them. Be good to both you and them.
Start observing yourself, your thoughts behind your actions. Reflect on what you attract back to you by those thoughts behind your actions. Try to do something out of pure, beautiful thoughts. If it means purifying your instinctive thoughts before acting, then do so. Reflect on the good that you attract back to you… You can confine this to yourself or you can choose to expand your world by extending pure, beautiful actions to someone else outside of you. Your world and what you attract back to you become larger when you choose to extend it beyond yourself…But first, start with observing yourself so that you can become aware of the current world that you are creating for yourself.
We are both human and spirit so it is also important to be in great spiritual health through purifying our thoughts and acting from our purified thoughts. Purification – that which will place you or anyone in a higher state of being by your action.
Our blessings are usually placed right in front of us. We just have to get in the habit of “only” seeing how we can make the most out of it … yes, resist the urge of finding the faults of what’s in front of us and instead look for the beauty in it, resist the urge of going into any negative zone about what’s in front of us and instead open our minds/hearts to seize and receive with love the opportunities right in front of us.
The best gift we can give to ourselves and the world is a “happy, fulfilled us”. If we are at that state of being then we are at our most powerful to give to ourselves and to others with love and pureness. But first we have to learn how to receive the full blessings that are in store for us to get to that state of being.