Meeting needs in an interdependent relationship

Meeting someone else’s needs:-  Giving them what they truly want from us for them to “be at home” and not necessarily what we want to give to them. Consider this carefully as we tend to think that we are meeting someone else’s needs when we give them what we think they want even if this may not be what they truly want from us at a particular time. So be cognizant of each other’s needs to “be at home” in any interdependent relationship.

Savor the process to getting there

While it’s important for us to focus and work on our dreams, it’s equally important for us to enjoy the process to getting there, one moment at a time. Being grateful for where we are in the process helps us to be in that state where we can enjoy the moment and hence enjoy the process. Patience comes from enjoying the moment. Impatience comes from focusing only on the dreams and ignoring the joy that can come from the process.

Saying sorry to another is ultimately about us

It’s beneficial to us when we say to another that we are sorry if our action toward them was not of our highest form as it would not have produced the results that was in alignment with our highest aspirations. Saying that we are sorry gives us a second chance to achieve that optimal results. Remember, we are all a work in progress.

Being ready to seize that opportunity

There are certain things in life that are meant for each of us to help with our growth but we don’t always know how to get it. When we go about life with anger, greed, lack of integrity, lack of compassion, fear, low self esteem, worrying about what people will say etc. instead of being our authentic self, we delay the time these things come to us. When we follow the guidance of our hearts or intuition/gut feelings which is the guidance from our soul, we go about getting what is meant for us the quickest. In other words, making ourselves ready for when the universe brings that opportunity for growth to us so we can be in the right situation to earn it as opposed to missing it because we are unprepared.