Just stop and love only yourself right now to refuel your energy to give to yourself first and then to others. Don’t forget to pat yourself on the back for doing a good job. Remember, things may not happen overnight for it is a process. But the process gets shorter as your energies get cleared and hence stronger. Also, allow any person close to you to do the same, if they need to, for they too have to refuel to satisfy their needs first so that they can give to you what you want from them. Be good to both you and them.