It is our perception of what’s in front of us that causes us emotional pain. So our “emotional pain” only exists because we allow it to.
If there is nothing we can do to get justice or fairness then we can choose to learn from the experience by seeing what benefits us the most rather than succumbing to our feelings of emotional pain caused by self-pity. Whatever it is has already happened. Succumbing to the “emotional pain” that we created only harms us and not the other… We can choose to learn from the experience and detach lovingly for our sake. Yes, love heals what can potentially cause us an emotional wound.