Negotiate to meet all needs

From the eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn Marshall

Don’t force anything or anyone to fit your schedule. They too have to go at their pace. If it is necessary then negotiate with love and understanding of your and their situation. We don’t have to be “right”. We just have to do what’s best for us to move smoothly along our journey and sometimes it means compromising to get a good relationship with others which will make us happy or provide some means of fulfillment. If you feel the need to be “right” in any sort of negotiations instead of trying to reach the best solution for all parties involved (which includes you), then turn your love on yourself and take time to reflect on what needs to be addressed.

When our actions also mean blessings for others

From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn MarshallFocus all of your thoughts on maximizing your outcome and detach lovingly from focusing on what others will gain from your action by wishing them well with their blessing for it is meant for them.

Embody this concept in all similar situations and your energies will purify and be at peak strength which will help you to manifest what is meant for you.

Overcoming that feeling of “rejection” when relating

From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn Marshall

If we want others to let us be our true selves and allow us to put ourselves first, we too need to allow others to be true to themselves and put themselves first. If we ask of something from another, we owe it to them to take the action that will put themselves first even if it means saying “no” to us. For it is they who are ultimately responsible for their actions regardless of the trigger. If their actions feel like a rejection to you then you’re taking it personally. Direct your love to yourself until you can become balanced again.