From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn Marshall

Life is about winning and winning should be about reaching fulfillment through achieving your highest aspirations. So channel your natural energies and natural abilities into winning. Do not lower your chance of winning by channeling your natural energies into the likes of anger, fear, jealousy, vengeance, greed, desperation or any form of limiting energies.
Things to do to keep your vibrations high
1. Engage regularly in activities that bring you deep soul enjoyment. This will give you the purest and highest highs that can uplift your moods and your sense of worth.
2. Always look to see the lesson or the positive message in any situation that you find yourself.
3. Always make the choice that would put you in your best and highest standing. Ask the question, “what is the best choice of action for me to take now?”, then take that action even if it means pushing through your fears.
4. On a spiritual side, develop a relationship with God or whatever represents the highest, purest source of power for you and get in the habit of asking for his divine guidance and learning how to hear and follow his answers. Then trust and have faith in him for he will always deliver what’s best for you.
5. Develop healthy relationships with others where there is mutual respect of each other.