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There are certain things in life that are meant for each of us to help with our growth but we don’t always know how to get it. When we go about life with anger, greed, lack of integrity, lack of compassion, fear, low self esteem, worrying about what people will say etc. instead of being our authentic self, we delay the time these things come to us. When we follow the guidance of our hearts or intuition/gut feelings which is the guidance from our soul, we go about getting what is meant for us the quickest. In other words, making ourselves ready for when the Universe brings that opportunity to us so we can be in the right  “state of being” to act on it as opposed to missing it because we are unprepared.

From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn Marshall

Your emotional pain is caused when “your perception of what’s in front of you” seems worse than what you expected.

If there is nothing you can do to get justice or fairness then you can choose to learn from the experience by seeing what benefits you the most rather than succumbing to your feelings of emotional pain. Whatever it is has already happened and succumbing to the “emotional pain” will only harm you. So, choose to not create that “emotional wound”.

See “obstacles and challenges” in the best light, as an opportunity to grow.

From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn MarshallStop for a few seconds to acknowledge and be grateful for who you are and where you are on your journey. Make the choice to move forward in the healthy state of joy and happiness. We may not always be in control of the circumstances in our lives nor our instinctive reactions to those circumstances. But we are in control of how we react beyond our instinctive reactions. Always make the choice that would put you in your purest and highest standing. Ask the question, “What would I, in my purest form, do?”. Then take that action even if it means pushing through your immediate fears. If you take full responsibility for your actions, then you would be inspired to make the choice that would place you in your highest position.

From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn Marshall

Turn away from the edge and see it from a broader perspective

Sometimes we are put in a situation we’re totally unprepared for and we cannot see how it can benefit us. So we project from a space of lack and start playing an illusionary, disastrous outcome over and over in our mind until we’re stuck in emotional pain. Try to stop fighting the situation and instead surrender to it. This will help to calm those negative thoughts and allow in a sense of peace that you need to make good decisions. Then try to see the situation without your fears and then choose the best steps to empower yourself.

From the eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn Marshall

Stand out instead of fading into the background.

There may be things that can be seen as “obstacles” in your path. Address them, if necessary, in your purest and highest form to always move forward in your optimal way. One of the biggest obstacles may be the limitation that you set as the solution for a specific desire or aspiration of yours. This could be because of your fears of standing out so you create a solution that makes you fade into the background. Making ourselves small will rob us and the world of benefitting from our unique talents and we will miss out on our highest fulfillment.

From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn Marshall

Where there is a fear of the “dark”, create “light” in every sense. Let in natural light where possible, turn on the electrical light where needed, seek information to understand, trust and illuminate with your love. For what’s in the “dark” is exactly the same as when we turn on the “light”. The difference is that we cannot see in the “dark” and so we develop a fear of what we cannot see, the unknown. So create “light” to remove the fear of the “dark”, the unknown.

From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn Marshall

It may be a heavy load but it’s only a burden if we make it so. When we do it out of love of what we can gain from it or/and what others can gain from it, it will lighten us up and raise our vibrations and so the heavy load would not feel like a burden but instead pleasing.