Unresolved conflicts

From my ebook: Aligning with your authenticity Vol. 2 by Joycelyn Marshall

Unresolved conflicts can cause resentment that negatively affect our inner peace and can also fracture important relationships that are necessary to achieving our highest aspirations. Being able to lead the way out of conflicts, before it festers, takes spiritual maturity on our part. Most times, it requires exercising compassion to make peace first with ourselves and then the others—so that all sides can be heard, understood and acknowledged.

On good partnership:- 1

From the eBook: Upgrading Your Life by Joycelyn Marshall

On good partnership:- 1

Any good partnership is about the unique value you each bring to it to be the best that you can be together. It is not about using what you bring to hold power over the other to get the upper hand or to feel power over the other, as this would diminish the effectiveness of the partnership.

Make the choice to be happy

From my eBook: Upgrading Your Life by Joycelyn Marshall

Make the choice to be happy

Happiness is in your “lifestyle” where you focus on the positive; refuse to focus on negativity unless taking action to peacefully resolve it; send love to certain situations so that you can energetically detach from them; be mindful of what can and cannot change so that you can get the serenity to make good choices; overcoming fear and taking a leap of faith into the unknown to follow your soul’s desires.

A sense of accomplishment

From my eBook: Aligning with your authenticity by Joycelyn Marshall

A sense of accomplishment

Feeling a sense of accomplishment can sometimes just be a matter of seeing your progress from a higher perspective by seeing how far you have come or the “mountain” you have climbed or that the hardest part will soon be done and it will be downhill from there on; and being grateful for where you are in the process.

Richness of spirit

From my eBook: Upgrading Your Life by Joycelyn Marshall

RICHNESS of SPIRIT

Richness of spirit is a form of prosperity. It is the greatest kind of wealth because it is sourced directly from God and can be enjoyed no matter your circumstances. Mankind and its (his/her) flaws cannot intervene in this type of wealth and the great fulfillment it brings when you achieve it.

On reaching the higher level of consciousness

How to detect that you have reach self mastery/your true self empowerment or the higher level of consciousness.

1. You would be now doing your life purpose. You would have freed yourself of thinking that you have to work to make money and instead ask yourself, “How can I serve humanity?”. Money would no longer be your primary focus as you would now settle in to knowing and experiencing that your needs would be abundantly met by God through the Universe.

2. You would now see the world from a perspective of abundance instead of from a space of lack.

3. You would master being free and happy in the present moment.

4. You would now create your reality in partnership with God by totally letting go of the reins and allowing God to always guide you. You would be doing so while being in your truth and in fairness and compassion to others.

5. You would be living in abundance of happiness, fulfillment, unconditional love to self and others.

Codependency on another to feel powerful

From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn Marshall

Your true power can never be OVER someone else. Your true power is always OF yourself.

If you attach your true power as “feeling better than someone else” then you create a need for that person to exist in your life. Needing someone for your feelings of power is of itself giving your power away.

Ways in which we can create our own stress

From my eBook: Upgrading Your Life by Joycelyn Marshall

1. Obsessing about the negative outcomes in the world when we can’t do anything about it. Instead, focus on the positive. Focus only on the negative, if we are working on a solution to remove it.

2. Not taking control of how we feel. If we feel accomplished, we are accomplished; if we feel we can achieve it, we can achieve it; if we feel we are happy, we are happy – for only we know our true feelings, our true desires, our highest aspirations and what will truly fulfill us. We are therefore the most powerful to always make us feel the best about ourselves. Don’t give this power away by caring what others think about you more than you do about yourself.

3. Not stopping to refuel regularly.

4. Trying to do it alone without help from others. It’s ok to ask for help, delegate and oversee when possible or accept help from others when the load is too much for us. We don’t have to do it all on our own. If you are spiritual, then ask also for divine guidance. Then trust and accept that what arises is the best outcome for you, at any particular time.

5. Always wanting to be seen as perfect by others’ standards. We are here to be authentic and true to ourselves. It’s ok to put our imperfections out there. We all have imperfections of some sort and none is worse than the other.

6. Not making “being happy” a priority, in any situation we find ourselves.

7. Trying to be something we’re not. If it sparkles doesn’t mean it’s better. Being true to ourselves reduces stress as it makes us happier.

Open up to your full confidence

Life is there for us to live our own dreams and not to live it through others. It must be with a freedom of expression of our true nature, desires and birthright gifts and not about compromising in any shape or form to fit in. It is not about attaching to a label to derive some form of ownership or identity as everyone should be his or her owner and should derive his or her own identity from their own true nature. But it’s a process to get to this level of living and it’s ours for the taking when we learn how to align our state of being with our full confidence.