Month: March 2021

Make your self ready for that opportunity

From my eBook: Upgrading Your Life by Joycelyn Marshall

Make yourself ready for that opportunity

There are certain things in life that are meant for each of us to help with our spiritual growth or our fulfillment but we don’t always know how to get them. When we go about life in anger, jealousy, greed, holding grudges, lack of integrity, lack of compassion, fear, low self esteem, worrying about what people will say etc. instead of being our authentic self, we delay the time these things come to us. When we can free ourselves of these limiting energies so that we can effectively follow higher Divine guidance or divine inspirations or the guidance of our soul(our intuition), we go about getting what is meant for us the quickest. In other words, making ourselves ready for when the Universe brings that opportunity to us so we can be in the right “state of being” to RECOGNIZE it and ACT on it as opposed to missing it because we are unprepared.

Release your attachment to your past

From my eBook: Upgrading Your Life by Joycelyn Marshall

Release your attachment to the past

Don’t look back at your past with regret or anger. Even though your past has shaped your present, this is not about your past but about where you are right now. Take only the lessons from your past and use them to move forward smoothly. Additionally, when you “release your attachment” to the past, (not the same as forgetting your past), you clear your mind to receive inspirations to guide you closer to your goals.

Trust the process between levels of consciousness

From my eBook: Upgrading Your Life by Joycelyn Marshall

Trust the process between levels of consciousness

When your “state of being” is between levels of consciousness, you will fluctuate between getting opportunities to expand and experiencing destruction in your old lifestyle. Try not to be broken-hearted nor afraid during the destruction period nor do not project an outcome based on the destruction. Try to see the good in the destruction for it is meant to move you forward. Erase all expectations of any outcome and stay neutral to let in the new. Accept that you do not know anything about your next level of consciousness and acknowledge the need for the higher intelligence of God by asking for guidance. Let the Universe (God) be your source for everything.

On Fulfillment

From my eBook: Aligning with your authenticity by Joycelyn Marshall

Fulfillment starts with being true to ourselves and overflows into being happy for others as they are being true to themselves.

Fulfillment from doing our life purpose—which is a part of being true to ourselves—also helps with our self-confidence and to be more compassionate both to ourselves and others. This helps to manage conflicts and challenges better and to maintain our inner peace which is at the core of a healthy mental, emotional and spiritual well-being.

On resolving conflicts:- Aspect 2

From the eBook: Upgrading Your Life by Joycelyn Marshall

On resolving conflict:- 1

Sometimes in trying to compromise a middle ground can be found. In other times, it can only be one extreme or the other as there may not be any common ground in the two approaches. In cases like the latter, see things from both sides of the disagreement for we are all connected in one way or the other and our actions have consequences both to ourselves and others. If needed, be spiritually mature to let go of your own approach to let the approach on the higher ground prevail.

(The approach on the higher ground would take into consideration what’s best for all.)

Unresolved conflicts

From my ebook: Aligning with your authenticity Vol. 2 by Joycelyn Marshall

Unresolved conflicts can cause resentment that negatively affect our inner peace and can also fracture important relationships that are necessary to achieving our highest aspirations. Being able to lead the way out of conflicts, before it festers, takes spiritual maturity on our part. Most times, it requires exercising compassion to make peace first with ourselves and then the others—so that all sides can be heard, understood and acknowledged.

On good partnership:- 1

From the eBook: Upgrading Your Life by Joycelyn Marshall

On good partnership:- 1

Any good partnership is about the unique value you each bring to it to be the best that you can be together. It is not about using what you bring to hold power over the other to get the upper hand or to feel power over the other, as this would diminish the effectiveness of the partnership.

Make the choice to be happy

From my eBook: Upgrading Your Life by Joycelyn Marshall

Make the choice to be happy

Happiness is in your “lifestyle” where you focus on the positive; refuse to focus on negativity unless taking action to peacefully resolve it; send love to certain situations so that you can energetically detach from them; be mindful of what can and cannot change so that you can get the serenity to make good choices; overcoming fear and taking a leap of faith into the unknown to follow your soul’s desires.