When our actions also mean blessings for others

From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn MarshallFocus all of your thoughts on maximizing your outcome and detach lovingly from focusing on what others will gain from your action by wishing them well with their blessing for it is meant for them.

Embody this concept in all similar situations and your energies will purify and be at peak strength which will help you to manifest what is meant for you.

Overcoming that feeling of “rejection” when relating

From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn Marshall

If we want others to let us be our true selves and allow us to put ourselves first, we too need to allow others to be true to themselves and put themselves first. If we ask of something from another, we owe it to them to take the action that will put themselves first even if it means saying “no” to us. For it is they who are ultimately responsible for their actions regardless of the trigger. If their actions feel like a rejection to you then you’re taking it personally. Direct your love to yourself until you can become balanced again.

Always take control of your feelings

From my eBook: Upgrading Your Life by Joycelyn Marshall

You are to yourself what you feel. If you feel worthy, you are worthy; if you feel that you can achieve it, you will achieve it; if you feel accomplished, you are accomplished. For only you know your true feelings, your true desires, your highest aspirations and what will truly fulfill you. You are therefore the most powerful to always make you feel the best about yourself. Always take control of this as these are the energies that you are transmitting to the Universe.

Examine your underlying intentions before you act

From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn Marshall

There are energies behind our intentions so we need to purify them before we act, before we transmit them so that they can be received at their best.

If we are saying that someone does not deserve what is given to/meant for them with our intentions then we are sending out the energies that we do not deserve what is meant for us. They deserve what is given to/meant for them just as we deserve what is meant for us.

Stop to pat yourself regularly

From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn Marshall

Stop to pat yourself on the back regularly for it is a process.

Stop and love only yourself, regularly, to refuel your energy to give to yourself first and then to others. Don’t forget to pat yourself on the back for doing a good job. Remember, things may not happen overnight for it is a process. Also, allow any person close to you to do the same, if they need to, for they too have to refuel to satisfy their needs first so that they can give to you what you want from them. Be good to both you and them.

Getting to understand the world you create for yourself

From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn Marshall

Start observing yourself, your intentions behind your actions. Reflect on what you attract back to you by those intentions behind your actions. Try to do something out of pure, beautiful intentions. If it means purifying your instinctive thoughts before acting, then do so. Reflect on the good that you attract back to you. You can confine this to yourself or you can choose to expand your world by extending pure, beautiful actions to someone else outside of you. Your world and what you attract back to you become larger when you choose to extend it beyond yourself…But first, start with observing yourself so that you can become aware of the current world that you are creating for yourself with your actions.