From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-Empowerment by Joycelyn Marshall
Focus all of your thoughts on maximizing your outcome and detach lovingly from focusing on what others will gain from your action by wishing them well with their blessing for it is meant for them.
Embody this concept in all similar situations and your energies will purify and be at peak strength which will help you to manifest what is meant for you.


You are to yourself what you feel. If you feel worthy, you are worthy; if you feel that you can achieve it, you will achieve it; if you feel accomplished, you are accomplished. For only you know your true feelings, your true desires, your highest aspirations and what will truly fulfill you. You are therefore the most powerful to always make you feel the best about yourself. Always take control of this as these are the energies that you are transmitting to the Universe.
Stop to pat yourself on the back regularly for it is a process.