From my eBook: Self-Mastery/True Self-empowerment by Joycelyn Marshall

We are responsible for our quality of life. We are responsible for what we feel we deserve; every action we make despite the source that triggered that action; our thoughts of ourself and of others.
For only we know whether something is right for us and we would know this through your intuition. So before we act, we need to check with our intuition and if it feels good, then it is right. If we take full responsibility for our actions then we would be inspired to make the choice that would place us in your highest position.
