On losing someone close to you, your period of sadness or pain can be reduced when you are in the healthy state where you can be happy that they are in a better place. It is about their journey and you should want what’s best for them. Most times our sadness from the loss is based on our co-dependency of some sort on them which goes away when we truly master ourselves. Regardless of the reason for the loss, if we cannot be at the state of unconditional love for them or forgiveness to them and ourselves then we are only carrying forward unnecessary and damaging baggages along our journey. Remember, sometimes things have to end before there can be progress along our journey. Whatever you did for them was your best based on your level of consciousness. Whatever they did for you was their best given their level of consciousness. So forgive both yourself and them as you both deserve to be forgiven and you both deserve unconditional love. Take the good and lessons learned from the previous situation and navigate smoothly forward.